’s life has changed, but I think it has changed for the better. Within a few short months, she adopted a new born baby, won an Oscar for Best Actress, and she filed for divorce to Jesse James. I think two out of three isn’t bad.
I am getting tired that a lot of the information that is out there makes her seem like she is this weak woman who needs a man, which is not so. Sandra Bullock has so much going on in her life for the better that she really doesn’t have time to deal with a cheating husband. When a woman has a child whether by birth or adoption, it is still a woman caring for a child. If you are a great parent, it takes a lot of time and energy to do it right. So she as a professional actress and a good one at that, I would not be surprised if she is just as good at home with children.
The best thing Sandra Bullock could do is file for divorce because who needs that drama. It makes me laugh that I have read reports from In Touch Magazine, that poor Jesse is in “constant pain”. Please, give me a break. He sure was not in pain as his wife was out working mean while he was out with another woman. The hardest thing for me to read about Sandra Bullock is that Jesse lied to the other woman, making it seem that they were no longer together. How could he deny being with her? And now he is pain! Well you did to yourself, SORRY!! I am sure it is hard for Sandra to go forward with the divorce while caring for a baby. Especially, thinking you were going to have someone “have your back” but, then have someone take the rug out from under you, and go into a world of motherhood alone. I am sure she has had to tell herself over and over and over again to move forward by reminding herself of what he did. I can probably guess that yeah, she will have some sad moments of missing having a partner but the best part of it is now is that she has a baby to help her pull herself out of that void.
A child can give you so many super human powers that you didn’t know you had. Also, a child helps you see clearly how much stronger you really can be. Is it nice to have a man in life to share those milestones of the child? Yes, absolutely! Is it necessary? No, it is not. Sandra is an independent woman who is blessed to have talent that pays very well. A talent that will allow her to have the luxury to care for a child and be home with him everyday without the drama and cheating ways. Sandra will only become as strong as her little boy grows up. She will change in ways that will amaze her. Keep an eye on the difference in the movie roles that she will be in because the day she returns to the big screens it will be a whole new person.