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More of us need to 'give a damn'

Glendale : CA : USA | 20 days ago  
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  • Kitty Genovese
    Kitty Genovese
    Posted by: CaliforniaMike
    ... murdered in 1964. 
  • Give a damn
    Give a damn
    Posted by: CaliforniaMike
    Do your part to make things better.

I have been thinking a lot about Kitty Genovese recently.

Genovese, who was murdered in March 1964 in New York City, was the case that told us something about ourselves that we really didn't want to know. Thirty-seven of her neighbors either heard her screams or saw her being beaten to death from their apartment windows, and not one of them called the police.

Some said they thought someone else would already have called, some just didn't bother. The consensus among them was that they didn't want to get involved.

I was 14 when it happened, living in a nice safe Virginia suburb. I remember that I was one of those people thinking what a cold, terrible place New York City must be.

I know that five years later filmmaker John Schlesinger made a similar point in his film "Midnight Cowboy" when he showed a dead homeless man on the sidewalk and no one even stopping to look at him.

For a few brief years, a movement grew out of the Genovese slaying. People wore buttons that said "Give a damn," and a group called Spanky and Our Gang had a minor hit with a record of the same name.

It was an interesting idea, one that seemed much stranger to many people than it should have. Give a damn about your fellow man, as if caring -- and giving -- could really make a difference in the world.

Some folks don't, you know.

Give a damn, that is.

Some folks don't give a damn whether the people around them live or die, and there's nothing political about it. You don't have to be liberal or conservative to be a jerk, just as you don't have to be liberal or conservative to be a mensch.

All you have to do is care.

For all the things I say about politics, for whatever praise I give Barack Obama, I'm actually pretty well fed up with our political system. I think it's broken and it might be beyond repair, a machine flooded with money that isn't really liberal or conservative.

What our government does better than anything else is protect wealth.

It doesn't do much for people except get in their way.

When was the last time you were really happy with the people running things in Washington? I honestly can't remember. Conservatives might say during the Ronald Reagan years, but I know a lot of my conservative friends were upset Reagan talked a good game but didn't do much about issues that really mattered to them.

Liberals might say Bill Clinton, but I was so disgusted with Clinton in 1999 that I actually wrote in my newspaper column that he should resign or be impeached.

There are good, caring people on both sides of the political spectrum, and I think most of them have one thing in common. They don't sit around waiting for the government to solve problems. They pitch in themselves, giving of their time and their money.

My sister volunteers almost full time in her sons' school system. Budget cuts have strapped education in her part of Massachusetts, and she fights politically too. But she doesn't just complain -- she works.

I know conservatives who do the same thing, some of them volunteering in hospitals and others in homeless shelters.

I know not everyone has time to do this, and some people give money instead. Others work for political change to get what they want, but I think people are beginning to see one thing.

Politics is the least effective way to change things for the better.

It's the least effective way to give a damn.

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Posted By Saige000 Saige000 | 20 days ago
I agree completely. Politics are completely screwed up at the moment.
Posted By agrotankit agrotankit | 20 days ago
Apathy is the "movement" of the moment, ironically and unfortunately.
Posted By MasonTaylor MasonTaylor | 20 days ago
Yes, if we could re obtain stability, i have faith in the administration to keep a hold on it however.
Posted By antonianoel antonianoel | 20 days ago
A-fu!king-men. About time someone gave a damn. A girl in the area I live in was raped and beaten recently by about 15 guys and the most people did was take pictures with their camera phone.
Reply By Write4Life Write4Life | 20 days ago
Antonia - I mentioned that story to someone today - and was completely dumb struck they had not heard about what happened to that poor girl. Apathy - the last step into the abyss.
Posted By pollard pollard | 20 days ago
I agree, everything about our political system is broken or flawed. Thats a good analogy, no matter how loud we scream the other party doesn't hear us.
I disagree with your statement that said:Some folks don't give a damn whether the people around them live or die, and there's nothing political about it.
I believe most people truly cares, whether someone lives or dies, but it's the way some folk's line up to give something away that's not theirs.
Posted By MargieGraulau MargieGraulau | 20 days ago
There was a time when people did give a damn but that was many years ago. It is time to bring it back again and make it stick. So can anyone come up with suggestions as to how we can accomplish this in a world-wide fashion? It would make an excellent universal project.
Posted By Blondiie Blondiie | 20 days ago
When I first heard this story I was sickened. I couldn't believe how selfish those people were. Everything is screwed up, its about time everyone starts paying attention recently. Especially the government.
Posted By pussypopper pussypopper | 20 days ago
I just need points for this game i'm play its sad she's gone :(
Posted By karyhans1 karyhans1 | 20 days ago
Time for a third party. Government is owned by lobbyists.
Posted By Donalds Donalds | 20 days ago
After living 50yrs. Boy, do I CARE! I fight every day. And I'll never give up. Never give in. Until things really CHANGE! I was born at Glendale Hospital.
Posted By Write4Life Write4Life | 20 days ago
I am completely with Don and you too Mike - I care,..... I TRULY do.

Thanks for the post.
Posted By mimirules101 mimirules101 | 20 days ago
so true. we all need to give a damn!
Posted By silahudin silahudin | 20 days ago
there is telled politic the art pissible. indeed, politic full possible, because, it is the struggle of power, but power tend to corrupt. because, we must to control of power.
the power without morality is empety, and then able destroyed many people.
Regard
Posted By Donalds Donalds | 20 days ago
If you really CARE, follow twitter @cxs (that's Congress) tell your Representatives how you feel about how laws should be changed!
Posted By jackmeyoff jackmeyoff | 20 days ago
this is so totally true, we should all pay more attention.
Posted By vernoncrumrine vernoncrumrine | 19 days ago
Just MORE of us? Nope - ALL of us. But that doesn't necessarily take stronger laws that can sometimes end up punishing the innocent.

We don't need more change - we need to return to what it was that we started out as - human beings.

We've all, for a lot of reasons and excuses, managed to become much less than human. And until we see that "the other guy" is like us and can love him as much as we love ourselves, nothing will really ever be as it should be, and MORE of us than we like to think about will continue to turn a blind eye to similar atrocities...
Reply By CaliforniaMike CaliforniaMike | 19 days ago
If we could remember that most people want the same things we do -- a better life for their children -- we could accept each other's common humanity.
Posted By knowwhatimean knowwhatimean | 19 days ago
Ah, yes, enlightening.
Posted By ToriRockstad ToriRockstad | 19 days ago
Its true, we have nothing to do with politics, its all being ran by corporations.
Posted By daimorukiri daimorukiri | 19 days ago
We should give a damn, everything's going into turmoil!
Posted By donay donay | 19 days ago
i agree too
Posted By donay donay | 19 days ago
this is some bull
Posted By kal-el kal-el | 19 days ago
With the way things are going in the world today, I believe everyone should try to think of a few things they can do to improve their community.
Posted By Shirley66 Shirley66 | 19 days ago
They say "Mind our own business". But then, every thing has an exception.
Posted By xmrassassin xmrassassin | 19 days ago
i dont give a damn
am i the only one?
Posted By Blargasm Blargasm | 19 days ago
Government as a whole needs a reform.
Posted By RankTheSilent RankTheSilent | 19 days ago
lol yea this is pretty f***** up like all of you noobz >:D
Reply By CaliforniaMike CaliforniaMike | 19 days ago
Noobz? Are you a real person? You joined All Voices today?
Posted By cloud9devine cloud9devine | 19 days ago
This is a TERRIFIC article. I grew up in a very fortunate family. Even though my parents split when I was 9-years- old, they were both very giving. (just not to each other,LOL) My dad was constantly giving $$ and clothing to those less fortunate while my mom always supported organizations like the United Way, Salvation Army and Goodwill stores.

To this day, those values of giving and caring about the needs of others are instilled in me. My parents were the type of folk that often said, "Do what you see me do. Respond to things how you see me respond." Sure, they weren't perfect people; none of us are,but it sure is nice reaching out and showing love to someone.

There was a song not too long ago by the musical group, the Black-eyed Peas, called "Where is the Love?" That song made it to the Top 10 on Billboard charts. I loved that song for the message. It had a real catchy tune to it and asked a very serious question in the chorus.

It mentioned all the things this article mentioned about society as a whole and how desensitized we have become as human beings.

I remember how wonderful, caring and UNIFIED everyone seemed after Sept 11, 2001. For the months that followed, people were flying American flags everywhere, watching out for there fellow man, helping each other, doing whatever they can to be a better American..and then about a year later, fewer and fewer flags were flying.. something inside us was dying, People seemed to carry on with everyday life with no more zest.

I am the way I am because of HOW I was raised. We were not dirt poor, neither was my family considered middle class but I tell you what. We were always helping those in our neighborhood.

We went to church on Sundays and always heard the pastors talking about the love of God and how we should walk with the love of God in our hearts so other people can be a witness to it.

"Love isn't love till you give it away. Love wasn't put in your heart to stay." was something my mom always told us kids growing up and it's true.

So many of us don't "give a damn" about others because we get so caught up in our own affairs that we make the decision not to do anything to help some one. Sure, we don't want to "get involved" because, hey, "it's none of our business" anyhow and we just let it go.

We turn a blind eye to injustice we see on the street everyday because we don't have time. We don't have the COURAGE is more like it!

I'm not here to badger anyone but I know for a FACT that the next time I see something on TV about someone getting beat up and there's a VIDEO showing it from a bystander, I'm going to call that bystander a COWARD. Put that SILLY cell phone camera away and HELP the person. I know the video is evidence but I guarantee you the person getting beat up will appreciate it EVEN MORE if they get help than having someone take a video of it.
Posted By monicabelzer monicabelzer | 19 days ago
I agree with you. We should be willing to do more. Sitting by on the sidelines has become habit in the society today. We need to get off our duffs and start making a differance. When something is wrong we need to act, we need to "give a damn".
Posted By Natalie123 Natalie123 | 19 days ago
How Interesting. We should take more of an initiative.
Posted By evilskulls evilskulls | 19 days ago
thats true i dont care!
Posted By asfahanii515 asfahanii515 | 19 days ago
Politics!!!!!.. Who gives a damn thing. Let's throw a PARTY ;)
Posted By matzman matzman | 19 days ago
What happened in Richmond CA is a perfect example of public apathy.
Posted By ggsro6 ggsro6 | 19 days ago
PEOPLE JUST NEED TO CHILL OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 THEIR ARE PEOPLE DYING IF WE CARED ENUFF FOR THE LIVING MAKE A BETA PLACE FOR YOU AND FOR ME!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted By insulin insulin | 19 days ago
I think it's indeed totally not good at all.If I myself i think i will immediately call police.It's a life that's in risk.
Posted By rwhitmore rwhitmore | 19 days ago
I agree. The political system has become so messed up. Remove the electoral college and congress for that matter. Replace them with scientists, physicists, economists etc to come up with bills for our elected officials to vote on. Also, all members of the Senate should received one-year terms limited to one year. They're the ones that messed everything up but promise to fix it next time??
Reply By Write4Life Write4Life | 19 days ago
I agree in term limits - and I think most of Americans do. Especially with the issues going on now. One year terms might be a bit much - I would say keep the current term and limit a senator to a max of three terms. Some experience is helpful - too much leads to special interest groups tainting opinion.
Posted By cloud9devine cloud9devine | 19 days ago
Does anyone remember the song "Man in The Mirror" by the late Michael Jackson? The song is RIGHT ON.. the line that says, "take a look at YOURSELF and MAKE THAT CHANGE". It starts with US!! You, me and ALL of us. Don't wait for gov't systems to do SOMETHING-- YOU DO SOMETHING! If we wait for all this political changes, we' re gonna be waitin' for a loooooooooong time, ya'll, for real. Anyone feelin' me? Take some ACTION. Like monicabelzer said, 'we need to get off our duffs and start making a difference.'

Americans have become LAZY!!! We want everyone to wait on us hand and foot but we don't wanna GIVE! NOT ENOUGH GIVING is going around. We have become a society of TAKERS. We want, we want, we want to keep up with the Jones'..whatever.

Look in the mirror, ya'll and make that change. Do something nice for someone TODAY, not tomorrow, not next week. TODAY..:)
Posted By mllovric mllovric | 19 days ago
Did you know that Ronald Raegan was a Mormon from the church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints? All the worlds Mormons voted for him and put
him in office because the church brain washed them that he would be their
supreme savior who would take them to ZION. When he got in office he let his flock down and I laughed at all the Mormons for being such fools that
they sold everything including their homes and gave the money to the church. Others transferred the title of ownership to the church where only
the church got rich and cared not for anybody. 4/11/2009.
Posted By silahudin silahudin | 18 days ago
i need about political of sociology, and then about depelovement of world. regards
Posted By pollard pollard | 18 days ago
Although raised in his mother's Disciples of Christ denomination, beginning in 1963 Reagan generally attended Presbyterian church services at Bel-Air Presbyterian Church, Bel-Air, California. He became an official member of Bel-Air Presbyterian after leaving the Presidency. In addition, Reagan stated that he considered himself a "born-again Christian." Sorry mllovric
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