In this economy sometimes it might just be more affordable/sane to remain single, but that is just my humble opinion. Most people want to met that special someone, but I want to caution you to use safety when using chat rooms, Facebook, and other Internet social networking sites to connect with new people. It is easy for people to lie about who they are online, so do not be quick with self disclosure! Take your time to get to know someone, and take things slow! Happy trails to you in the world of cyberdating, and please be cautious.