Many of our female and some male gender think that haveing an abortion is just fun and games . An for some it's just their way of getting out of responsibility or consequences of their actions. But, HEY !!! Guess what you have to pay to PLAY!
Hi, this is amber. An i am reporting to you from Washington State. Life as we known it has completely gone out our local windows all around the world. Preteens and Teens are being more and more careless at having sex sooner then most of us did at their ages. I mean when we were their ages the only thing most of us thought about was what was jane down the street wearing to the homecoming dance and where can i get a dress like it , and for most men i have talk to it was what next part could they get to muscle up their car or what was the new hot scoop on Jimmy Hendrix new album!
But, now it's gone from who's going to make out point to who's house are we going to do it at , or when will your parents not be home? I mean come on! Life is to short as it is and by these kids standards if they are not haveing sex then they feel out of the loop. An as they are too in a hurry to grow up and have sex! They don't seem to think about the consequences because 65% of american parents are too enbarrassed to talk to their kids about sex and the consequences of their actions. An since parents don't take on their responsibility to educate their children on the etiquet of abstinance before marriage, the precious virtue of our children to stay virgins till after marriage is becoming so obsolete that the term virgin is only used when talking about children under the age of TEN! ( The only thing i know i was doing at ten was playing at the park with my friends, going to school, and wondering how soon school was going to get out so i could have my birthday party at Celebration Station and then go to kids camp! ) At ten years old thats when kids should be being kids and going to school and friends homes for girlie slumber parties , or dreaming about what they want to be when they grow up. Over the years between mother's haveing to work or parents getting divorced they lost focus of teaching their children responsibility and morals. An have allowed these children to run such a muck that heck even NOW because of it you can not even discipline your children without getting them taken away from you by child Protection services, or parents be thrown in jail for smacking their kids on the bottom or flicking them in the mouth for useing language that is inappropriate towards us as adults! An then yet the government counterdicts them selves by telling americans that they are bad parents if they don't discipline their children! I mean come on !!! i can remember being a young girl and getting a spanking on the bottom with a switch off grandma's bush and haveing to pick it off myself when i was due for a good spanking or with a fly swatter. But, at least when mom or grandma did that I at least learned that it was only because they loved me and wanted to teach me right from wrong or to keep me safe from harm.
But now with the governments restrictions on discipline because of those who have taken discipline too far the children are paying for it, and are at the same time also being aloud to run over their parents and lead to some if not most of them being a menace to society and winding up in jail or in prison by the time they are 16. Like the old saying always says "one bad apple can spoil the whole bunch if you let it.!"
Not, only has discipline gone out the window to the birds but also the morals, values, and the know to take care of our responsibilities because of the government and those who chose to take discipline to the extreme but teaching children to learn lessons of taking care of paying consequences and learning responsibility for those actions. We have to remember it is not up to the school system to teach these thing to the children but as parents it's your responsibility.
For example a young girl named Sue met this really cute guy at school named John Doe and they began talking and later began to date. One day Sue's mom had to work late and her father lived states away with his new family, and only sent cards and gifts on occassions. Sue called John up on the phone and told john she wanted him to come over because her mom had to work. So , john agreed and off to Sue's house he went. On the way john stopped at a friend's house that was older then he and asked him if he could go buy him some beer for him to take to his girl's place cause her mom was going to be gone. His friend agreed and went and got john the beer, he thanked his friend and went to Sue's. When he got their Sue turned on some music and her and john began drinking the beer they each drank three then went to sue's room where they began to have intercourse. After they were finished John got up and left. The next day at school Sue went to go find john and when she found him her heart sank to her stomach john was busy kissing on another girl . Then to make matters worse some girl in class started making fun of her calling her "easy sue". Sue, did not know why the girl would say such things, so later on sue went to one of her friends and asked what was going on why were girls and guys pointing and making fun of her? Her friend sammy told her it was because john was going around telling everyone she was easy and that she would sleep with anyone. Right then Sue took off and ran home , she knew she would not get in trouble because once again no one would be home because her mom was working again. Sue ran home and cried her eyes out, so for the next few days Sue stayed home, but just so her mom would not think anything was wrong Sue would as normal get up get dressed kiss her mom good bye then run and hide away from everyone till her mom left for work then she would run back home and would skip school. For the next couple of months Sue's grades had dropped and she was very sick but her mother thought it was the flu so she would just aid her daughter in letting her stay home while she would go to work. Well, one day Sue called her friend sammy and had her go with her to the Planned Parenthood about 1 mile from their house . Sue and Sammy went to the clinic and talk to Mrs. X , then Sue took a pregnancy test and about 20min. later sue found out she was pregnant and she began to cry. Her and sammy went back to her house where they began to talk about what was going on. Sue was afraid to tell her mom so sammy suggested they go talk to her mom. So, sue grabbed her jacket and off to sammy's they went. When they arrived Mrs. Colbyjack was in the kitchen cooking dinner and helping her son with his homework. When the girls came in sammy told her mom they needed to talk to her privately. Mrs. Colbyjack sat down in the living room and listened to everything the girls had to say. Mrs. Colbyjack started talking about options that Sue has and suggested adoption to Sue. She explained the process of adoption as Sue listened , when she finished she explained that reguardless of how scared she was to tell her mom that she would eventually tell her mom because she would have to start seeing an Obstetrician to make sure the baby stays healthy. Then Mrs. Colbyjack asked if this john guy knew when the girls told her what happen and that john did not know , Mrs. Colbyjack told the girls that Sue would have to tell him so that he knows and can find out his rights or to dissmiss it altogether but it would have to be his choice.
So, the next day Sue finally showed up to the school she figured she would confront john first before she confronted her own mother. It was lunch time when Sue showed up, she found john among his friends and with a different girl from the last time she saw him. She and Sammy walked over to where john was and told him that he needs to step outside in the hall with them away from everyone where they could talk privately. John made some wise crack at Sue then followed the girls into the hall outside the lunchroom. When they got into the hallway Sue confronted john with the news that she was pregnant , john said nothing at first and then said "Well, are you sure it's mine because we only did it the one time and since i have been told by some of my buddies that you slept with a few other guys!" Sue immediately began to cry and finally came out that he was the only one she had slept with because she was a virgin till they slept together. At that point he asked her if her mom was going to be home that night or could he come by so they could talk about their options. She told john her mom would be comming home early tonight so he could only come by for an hour or so and that when she came home Sue planned on telling her mom the news and that sammy and her mom where coming over to be there for support when she confronted her mom. John said ok, and he would be there right after School. After the confrontation with Sue and sammy, john went to his best friend and told him what he had just found out . All his buddy would tell him is to do what another friend of theirs did just pay for the girls abortion and give her some money to keep her quiet. He handed John a number to an abortion clinic he keeps in his wallet for such an occassion. John copied down the number and gave it back to his buddy, then took the number to Sue. Sue , She was furious at the idea.
To be continued......... This was just the beginning of my report on the report of Where have all the Morals and Responsibility of Actions done by today's children gone to?
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