"If you're going to be a conservative in America, you can't be a pussy."
-- ANN COULTER, 2006 speech to CPAC
Liberals have a big problem, and no one can do anything about it except the liberals themselves.
They were raised to be fair, while conservatives were raised to win.
Ever since Jack Abramoff revamped the College Republicans in the early '80s, conservatism has been about confrontation. The Abramoff generation made politics a showdown in which the wishy-washy left gets pounded by the strong, tough-minded right.
It's why the Coulters and other Republican pundits are constantly talking about the Democrats as "pussies," as "girly-men" or as other sorts who should be following rather than leading.
It's why liberals like Michael Dukakis and John Kerry, in the face of attacks that weren't true, decided not to dignify those attacks by responding to them. Voters didn't see it that way; voters said if they didn't fight back, they were weak and what was being said about them must be true.
It's why George W. Bush portrayed himself as a cowboy rancher, even though he didn't buy his ranch until he ran for president and he was afraid to go anywhere near horses.
Bush was a cowboy, while his opponents -- Al Gore and Kerry -- were wimps who wind-sailed. It's how he was able to get away with the fact that he avoided serving in Vietnam, even though both of his opponents actually spent tim in country.
Just the question of which candidate would you rather have a beer with -- as idiotic a way as it is to decide a president -- was all about masculinity and toughness. Everyone knew Gore and Kerry would probably prefer white wine.
It's why even when conservatives control all the branches of government, as they did under Dubya Bush, they see themselves as anti-government insurgents.
You can't compromise with these people. Just as the old Soviet Union always saw compromises as steps toward eventual victory, the right wing is the same way. Their plan is exactly what Grover Norquist once said, to shrink government down to a size where they can drown it in a bathtub.
It's why President Barack Obama needs to go ahead and do health care even if he can't get one Republican to vote for it. No matter how many teabaggers are showing up to complain -- and there really aren't that many compared to the overall population -- these are people who would never vote for Democrats anyway.
When conservatives control the government, they don't compromise. They jam through as much of their agenda as they can and challenge liberals to undo it later.
Obama needs to reform health care, end the wars and appoint liberal judges.
If he doesn't do it, it'll never get done.