Why do repeating family or genetic patterns appear so frequently on astrology charts?

Why do so many astrology experiments work? No matter how many times skeptics try to disprove astrology, puzzling conclusions happen. For example, when astrologers insisted that a majority of military generals and similar military leaders had the sign of Aires, the sign of war, very prominant in their charts, skeptics laughed. But statistics and computer experiments did show the sign of Aries prominant in the military leaders' charts, especially the generals.

Another fact is puzzling. When you look at any astrology chart, one or both of your parent's birth months is exactly in the same place on your chart, usually at the bottom of your astrology chart. It's called the cusp of the fourth house (of home and family). How come the month of your parent's birth is in that same place on your chart?

For example, in my chart, I was born on November 18th. In my fourth house is the planet Venus in Capricorn. My mom was born on January 19th, and my dad was born on December 8th. If you look at the bottom of my chart, in what is called the fourth house of home and family relations, you'll see the sign of Capricorn, my mother's birth sign--January 19th, under the sign of Capricorn. My mom's birth sign is Capricorn.

If I look at the cusp (the beginning) of my fourth house on my astrology chart, I see my dad's birthdate, Dec. 8th, under the sign of Saggitarius, right on the cusp of my fourth house, which is exactly 26 degrees of Saggitarius. My dad's birth sign is Saggitarius -Dec. 8th.

Okay, if that isn't eerie enough, let's look at my daughter's astrology chart. On her chart, looking at her fourth house, there's Scorpio on her fourth house, with Neptune in Scorpio in the fourth house. My sun sign is Scorpio. In my 5th house of children and sixth house of health is the planet, Pisces. My first child, my daughter's sun sign is Pisces. She was born on March 13th.

Now, moving to my son's chart, his fourth house is in Aquarius. His dad is an Aquarius, born Feb. 2nd. My son's moon is in Aquarius in his fourth house of home and family. My son's wife is an Aquarius, born Feb. 13th. I

In this case, the Scorpio is in my son's sun sign and rising sign in Scorpio in his first house of the personal body and self. His sun, moon, and rising sign are all in Scorpio in his first house of personal body/health/. He's a neuroradiologist physician, married, with four children.

Interestingly, with the son, it's his dad that's on his fourth house. With my daughter, it's me on her fourth house in Scorpio, and the planet ther is Neptune.

What does this all mean? When I look at my present (since 1974) husband's chart, born Nov. 2nd, his mom's sign is on his own fourth house cusp and in his fourth house, with moon in Pisces in his fourth house and Jupiter in Aquarius in his third house on the cusp of his fourth house. Predictably, his mom was born Feb. 2nd, same as my first husband.

As I look at the whole family's astrology charts, what it looks like is that someone out there in eternity, planned down to the very minute of the birth of each family member, from whom I'd marry, to whom I'd have children with, to what planets went into which houses in my chart, my parents' charts, and my childrens' charts.

My grand daughter's fourth house has her mother's sign in Pisces in her fourth house. And so on with each generation. Somebody out there perhaps knows when each of us will be born and whom we'll marry, or at least when each of our children and grandchildren will be born. But who and why? It seems as if there's no free choice. Everything is planned and destined to happen at a precise time of day or night in a specified month and year.

And I don't know who planned this all out or whether it's free will-based or every detail is predicted and carried out. If astrology is bunk as I've been told by logicians and logisticians, how come every generation has this information on each person's astrology chart?

Who gave this information to astrologers way back when in ancient times and why? And what does it all mean when a majority of military generals show up with prominent positions of the sign Aries in their charts?

I know astrology is based on mythology. And mythology is based on archetypes of personality traits and/or biographies of actual people living in ancient times in various places such as Babylon or Greece. But taking into consideration the differences between say, Indian and Chinese astrology compared with European astrology or Babylonian, I'd like to know who put the parent's sun signs on the children's fourth houses in their astrology charts and why?

What does this all mean? It seems as if the details of the chart show the genetic patterns of inheritance. For example, I'd like to know whether a mother's sun sign in a daughter's fourth house means the daughter inherited more of the mother's genes than the dad's genes or some other connection between inherited genes at the molecular level and the astrology signs in the various 12 houses of each person's astrology chart.

Basically, what does it all mean when those patterns consistently show up? And who is studying the connections between what shows up on parents' and childrens' charts--connections, the parent's sun sign planets in their childrens' fourth houses--and any other phenomenon? Why do these patterns appear?