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The Taconic State Parkway Killer Mom

West Babylon : NY : USA | 3 months ago  
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On July 26, 2009, Diane Schuler drove off a campground site in upstate New York, loaded with her two children and 3 nieces in her brothers minivan. She said goodbye to Danny, her husband as he drove off in his own car to go fishing.

Four hours later, eight people are dead. Mrs. Schuler drove approximately two miles in the wrong direction on the Taconic State Parkway, while people were blowing their horns and flagging her down to stop. The reports said she had the opportunity to pull the car over safely. Instead, she slammed the minivan head on into an SUV carrying a father, son and long time friend on their way to meet with family to discuss their yearly vacation. Say goodbye to the family vacation.

Her husband is telling everyone Diane was just fine when she drove off that summer day. The autopsy reports said she had the equivalent of 10 shots of alcohol in her stomach and had smoked pot. They found an empty vodka bottle.

Mr. Schuler said Diane was the perfect wife and mother and that he never once saw her drunk, in fact, she rarely drank. Eight people are now dead, seven innocent victims. Talk about living like an ostrich with your head buried in the sand.

Mr. Schuler will have to live the rest of his life having lost his wife, daughter and three nieces in the summer of 2009. The real tragedy is this possibly could have been prevented, but like so many people in our society today, we refuse to believe in the existence of reality. In this particular case, I'm guessing alcohol abuse reared its ugly head on a regular basis in this household.

Why can't we talk to one another about what is truly bothering us to our family, friends and coworkers? Instead, a lot of us walk around flashing fake smiles while we secretly pop our pills, take our drugs and guzzle alcohol.

If we keep on living in denial and ignore the obvious signs, we will continue to read about tragedies such as the one that took place on the Taconic State Parkway, leaving eight people dead.

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  • Posted By aquamarina217 aquamarina217 | 3 months ago
    Do we know if it really was a prolonged problem of alcohol/substance abuse or if it was just an individual moment of alcohol and drug overload? If it was just this one time she became drunk and smoked pot, it would make slight sense that she would have done such a dangerous and irrational action because she might have not recognized the toxicity and loss of mental control since it was her first time.


    Then again, your concluding comments are true in that many people are oblivious to their family and friend's addictions and problems. Often, we turn our heads or we just don't take the time to notice. Other times, the culprits are bent on hiding that part of their lives from the people in their lives because of fear of their family members rebuking (rightfully!) them. It is quite a tragedy to hear about such stories, especially those that can be prevented like this one. If only her husband had recognized signs. I have a quesiton though - can't you recognize a person who has had 10 shots of alcohol and smoked pot??
  • Posted By Sweet-Little-Angel Sweet-Little-Angel | 3 months ago
    Hubby probably wasn't paying any attention...maybe had his head glued to the TV or reading the finance section or whatever and merely glanced at her as she headed out the door.

    Hey, nice article, there, Wordslinger! I was in a car with a friend of mine one early morning when I was 19. After a night of drinking at a popular bar, we had the audacity--well, she did--to get in a car and drive home. We were giggling it up, and she asked, "D*mn, I think I'm on the wrong side of the road." I replied, "Really?" and looked out across the lane and noted, "Oh, yeah. You are." Did I mention she was speeding, as well?

    It is nice to note that we and our potential victims made it home in one piece that morning, but it goes to show how impaired one's mental capacity gets with a few Rum and Cokes or beer. Then to top it off with Pot that is potentially laced with chemicals....Ghastly.

    So, Wordslinger, your article reminded me about the consequences of driving while impaired, and I hope that those who are inclined to do so will rethink their habits BEFORE their next drinking binge. Save a life; think twice.

    Penny
  • Reply By WordSlinger WordSlinger | 3 months ago
    You're probably right about the hubby. He also worked the night shift, so that gave her ample opportunity to drink alone.

    I'm glad your experience with the friend speeding and driving on the wrong side of the street didn't turn into disaster. That was an early wake up call.

    The angels were steering you in the right way direction.

    Pam
  • Posted By mona37 mona37 | 3 months ago
    tragic!
    Does not matter if it was a long time abuse or a one time because eventually they all are dead now! you cannot escape problems anyways with alcohol pills or drugs! that just makes u weal and the problem does NOT get solved!!

    I hope this story does not go to waste and people actually make a change and learn a lesson from it!
  • Posted By WordSlinger WordSlinger | 3 months ago
    Aquamarine, the odds that this was a rare happening is not likely, especially since it was so early in the day and she had five children in the car. I've also read other reports where she was a regular at a bar, etc.

    Also your comment "because of fear of their family members rebuking (rightfully!)" The rightfully part is the reason people don't open up because who wants to be rebuked? Personally,I want love, help and understanding, not someone judging and yelling at me because I opened up about a problem I need help with.

    Yes, if someone has had 10 shots of alcohol as quickly as she must have slugged it down, surely someone would have noticed. My guess is she did it after she left hubby at the campground. She probably got a cup at McDonalds to pour the vodka in while she drank, drove and smoked the pot. I'm sure the kids noticed something, but what could they do?

    Not all, but accidents like this can be prevented if we can feel comfortable in opening up to our loved ones that we have a problem and get the right kind of help, not necessarily AA, but there are other sources for help.

    Thank you for your comment.
    WordSlinger

  • Reply By aquamarina217 aquamarina217 | 3 months ago
    Your explanations make sense. Thanks!

    Yes, I agree that a major part of the root problem is unwillingness to confide in loved ones. We should realize that they are *loved ones* for a REASON, and the reason is because they care for us immensely. Part of the problem most people don't open up to others is because, as I previously mentioned, we are afraid of getting lectured, yelled at or being called ridiculous and stupid. Often, the behavior of loved ones can get like this on non-dire situations (like alcoholism) and the person on the guilty end thinks that if he or she admits to a dire problem they will get chewed out in the same way. If we showed the people in our lives that we genuinely care about their well-beings, that we understand addictions are difficult to get rid of, that we will support you in overcoming bad habits, people would be willing to seek help.


    Also, I think people who are addicted to alcohol or drugs *must* know, at least deep down, that doing drugs or drinking all the time is a problem, but they often justify it so that they don't need to get help or that *they* specifically don't have a problem. In other words, at times, the issue is not fear of opening up to loved ones, but also a personal desire to stick with the habit (because after all, it is an addiction). The only way, I think, to overcome this particular resistance to change, is if the people in that person's life were more observant of the stress, the personality and the actions of that person. Noticing differences in attitude like depression, increased grocery/gas station bills, anything really, and then making sure to reassure the person that if he or she is having a difficult time that he or she can depend on you for stability, help, a shoulder to cry on, a guidance in overcoming problems or addictions (hinting at their addiction but not blatantly accusing them because people are delicate creatures and get defensive easily).
  • Posted By WordSlinger WordSlinger | 3 months ago
    I think most people who are addicted to drugs and/or alcohol know deep down they have a problem. The challenge is in taking the necessary steps to get the help needed. The more love and support this person has, the better chance they have of moving on to a better life. If the addict is yelled at and made to feel less than, it will only fuel their addiction. No one wants to be addicted to drugs or alcohol. There also needs to education in the school systems, possibly beginning in grade school on the consequences of what can happen when you drink or use drugs, and I don't mean someone coming to the school once a year to give a speech. I mean weekly classes, role playing and that sort of thing.
  • Posted By WordSlinger WordSlinger | 3 months ago
    I think most people who are addicted to drugs and/or alcohol know deep down they have a problem. The challenge is in taking the necessary steps to get the help needed. The more love and support this person has, the better chance they have of moving on to a better life. If the addict is yelled at and made to feel less than, it will only fuel their addiction. No one wants to be addicted to drugs or alcohol. There also needs to education in the school systems, possibly beginning in grade school on the consequences of what can happen when you drink or use drugs, and I don't mean someone coming to the school once a year to give a speech. I mean weekly classes, role playing and that sort of thing.
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