Women are people too

I frequently receive articles from WebMD and I recently read something that really pissed me off. One of the articles I subscribe to deals with sex and relationships, and I received one that was titled "Sex Drive: How do men and women compare". My first thought was this should be interesting, because like any rational woman I expected them to say that women are just as interested as men, but I was mistaken. Why do people in medicine keep perpetuating these stereotypes that men and women are from different planets, and we need interpreters to figure each other out. We don't. We want the same things, I can have sex with candles, without candles, and in any place me and my husband can fit comfortably, whether that's our bed or our kitchen counter. I know plenty of women who feel the same way. For ALL people out there men and women, there is no game, there is no dance, there is no trading off of niceties until you can hop in the sac. Women are just as capable of being sexual as men, and we don't just do it to make them happy, or because we want jewelry. If any of you women out there are stupid enough to think sex is some type of tool you use to get what you want, you're sorely mistaken, while you're waiting for him to cave (and suffering in the process mind you) he's just going to do something else to satisfy his need, that doesn't necessarily mean he will cheat on you, but it does mean you're not getting any, why suffer, get a job and buy your own jewelry (note: I know this specifically has nothing to do with the article, but the article is one of the many idiotic attempts to give stereotypes logical credence and it really ticks me off). Furthermore why is that people are always trying to psychoanalyze, strippers, prostitutes, or any other woman that happens to be in the sex industry. If a man has that type of profession everyone says he must feel like the luckiest man on earth, but if it's a woman, she has daddy issues, she's insecure, etc... Perhaps this isn't to popular a theory, but there are plenty of women out there who just enjoy the attention, it doesn't mean she has some sort of psych-sexual problem. I bet there are plenty of women out there who wish they felt secure enough in their own skin to do these things. If some frumpy house-frau clumsily wraps herself around a pole in her bedroom she's trying to spice up her marriage, but if an attractive, flexible, open-minded women notices that there may be some profit to be made in that arena, it must be because she was sexually abused as a child. Come on people when are you going to get it, women like sex.. a lot. Stop trying to stuff us into a tiny box, because you're uncomfortable with with the thought of your mothers as sexual beings.