Comments Related To: Young Women Often Don't Know How to Have an Orgasm

You do have a good point there. I am male myself, there is a point that onced cross makes it diffucult to control oneself, fortunatley for me though, my martial arts training has helped me gain a massive amount of self control and self awareness. I am in a wonderful relationship with my fiancee' and have been steady with her for over 4 yrs now. There are plenty of times where I worry wheather or not I will please her, wheather or not I will be ridculed, wheather or not Ill get her pregnant to early to hurting her somehow. These thoughts gravly hurt our ability to perform, at the least for the men who care deeply of their loved one. The problem then in some cases may occur when any lady chooses not to masturbate. I have done an extensive amount of research and have found that AS a lady masturbates she then becomes more aware of herself, the orgasims she then has are, to say the least, nothing short from heavenly. Not only that, having that wonderful orgasim helps a lot of men, like myself, increase their drive and power, which then in turn allows for more of that heavenly orgasim, and so on an so fourth. I do hope that this insight helps.

Dear Angelous11,

I am always really pleased when people are able to make positive and constructive comments as you have. My aim is to open up the discussion about sex so that we can learn from others. It is all too easy for people to become egotistical when talking about sex and this intimidates others from talking about their experiences.

Thanks for your contribution,
Jane

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