No need for ice creams and chocolates to cheer yourself anymore. Only a general change in perceptions is whats needed.

There comes a time in life when you do things for a start and they gradually become a part of your routine. Two categories come in here. One consists of people who are control 'freaks' and cannot go out of their routine and do something different because when they do, it begins to make them feel uncomfortable and at unease. Second category consists of those people who are carefree as they are and hardly allow anything to become a part of their routine, no matter how important it is, they just don't. They don't let it get to themselves to an extent that it would make them feel incomplete if they don't feel like doing a certain thing one day. They say people that fall in the second category or type, live longer, probably because their lives don't seem to end at one small thing here or there. That is the way it should be. Coming from someone who is a control freak, life should be simpler. It should not be made complicated and tangled than it already is. Ending on a general note, nobody is happy with the direction life decides to take for them. If its going left, you want to go right, if its going right, you definitely want to go left. Easier said than done, agreed, yet you should learn to try and relax a bit, let life take control and stop struggling slash arguing to get your own way. It might just end up in something you would consider 'good' for you.