The singer and actress,, told People magazine what good and not so good decisions she has made in her life, defined who she really is, and added she has no regrets whatsoever.
The 43-year-old actress says her current boyfriend, Casper Smart, 25, helped her get over from divorce with Mark Anthony, and no matter how much their age difference is, the couple is only focusing on living one day at a time and making each other happy.
The singer acknowledged that sometimes she gets serious doubts about her relationship with Casper, and often wonders if they have a future together.
"I ask him, 'Why don't you go find a young girlfriend and get out of here? What do you want with me?' And you think, 'How long is this gone be?' You think, 'Okay, in 10 years I'm going to be like this and you're going to be like that' and … men at that age are … I think all different things,” Lopez, tells the mag. “The truth is we don't know what's going to happen. We're loving this moment right now. We make each other happy."
The singer said that at this point in her life, she has no plans of settling down with someone in a serious relationship. When asked about her one-time engagement toand her infamous relationship with Diddy, Lopez said these are only things she has learned from.
"I don't regret those things – that's who I am," she says about her high-profile relationships. "But at least now I'm at a point where I have to recognize that these choices and things that happen are partly because of me and my decisions and I have to be more careful. So I am being more careful."
When asked how it feels to be around her exes, given the fact that they work in the same industry, Lopez said it’s not that big a deal. She even gave Ben Affleck a standing ovation when he won the Best Director award for ‘Argo’. “I was really happy for him”, Lopez said.
Besides the new season of American Idol, the singer-come-actress is currently focusing on her upcoming film, “Parker”, which is due to hit the theater in the United States on Jan. 25.
Lopez admits that some time down the road she will have a family and kids, whom she would love to look after.