A loving relationship is like an ocean. While on some days the sailing could be pretty smooth and enjoyable, on others it may turn out to be quite rough and appalling. And like a tsunami sends out signals before its arrival, even your partner does. You may have the best love compatibility in the world with your partner or your horoscopes may match perfectly, but saying one wrong word at the wrong time could spark-off a huge fight at the blink of an eye.
You can always sense when something is wrong with your partner. The trick to avoid a probable fight is to understand and catch those subtle hints that they usually give when they are angry or upset. While it may vary from person to person, but every single individual has their own unique way of giving out these hints. So let us take a look at some of the best ways to avoid a prospective fight with your beau.
Being Present in the Moment
Your partner comes home from work, completely flustered. You politely ask them what is the matter and pat comes the reply, “Nothing!” Get the hint that your partner is upset about something and needs to be left alone. Do not probe into them again and again as it only worsens the situation. Even the slightest feeling of provocation or perceived disrespect is enough to blow-off the volcano. Give them their space but BE with them. They will ask out for you sooner than you would have expected.
Stop, Wait and Step Back
You may be highly concerned for your beau and wants to be with them when they are upset. But when you lend your caring hand towards them, all you get in return is sheer resentment. You could either choose to argue with them at that moment and spark-off a humongous fight or simply take a step back to avoid one. Human beings, after all, are tender creatures and provoking them when they are already fragile is just not the right thing to do.
Get Your Priorities Right
Never fight or argue with your partner just for the sake of it. Try and figure out why your partner is upset and what exactly it is that is at stake. Making everything a prestige issue is one of the worst mistakes you could make in a relationship. Create a list of things that is critical for maintaining the prosperity of your relationship and abide by it. Rest assured you will have a fight-free love life.
Be Willing to Give Up
At times, you may have to sacrifice or give-up on something to avoid a fight with your partner or save your relationship. The more willing you would be to give-up (when required), the more would be your chances to avoid a prospective fight. You need to get the balance right; what is it that is more important for you - your relationship with your partner or whatever you are giving up to save your relationship. Once that is being figured out, everything else will automatically fall into place.
Relationships are like a job, if you do not perform well enough, you may lose it forever. So it does not matter if you two are a perfect match as per the science of astrology, you still would need to work out your relationship with your partner for an everlasting and joyous love life.