It’s been going on for far to long… The Department of Children and families. It starts off with a simple knock at your door, you let them in because you are a nice person and you are being questioned, then it goes on and the social worker starts making you feel like a bad person, a bad parent. They are not there to give you the parent of the year award they are there for one thing and one thing only, TROUBLE. Granted there are people that should not be allowed to have children but they do not seem to pay attention to them. They get calls from schools, people you were once involved with, a nasty divorce, a nosy neighbor. Then it’s will you do this, or that, can you sign this and that to, then they start questioning your children, and then you have an investigation going.
Now an investigation can go one of two ways unsubstantiated or substantiated. That depends on how much poof they have and how you cooperate with DCF/CPS with unsubstantiated you are OK, but the process of it is long and is hurtful, they want to know everything about you and your children. If your parenting skills aren’t up to the standards they expect forget it. Then you have the substantiated…. it will ruin your life, you won’t be able to work in the health care field, and you will be under the thumb of DCF/CPS. These people do not care, it’s a job, and taking children away is what they do because it brings money.
There are a lot more people out there that have had their run in with DCF/CPS then you know, and I have yet to hear of one good out come. I keep asking for people to come forward and share what they have been through so other people don’t have to, and that this agnecy will start being help accountable for the things they do to families. There are people out there that will listen, there are many groups that are against DCF/CPS, but if people don’t come forward it will continue. Day after day I get emails about the horrible things they are doing, they need to be stopped, we have rights for a reason but they trample all over them as if they are immune to our constitutional rights. Lets put a stop to this, if they have made a visit once they will be sure to return, all it takes is a phone call so lets stick together and start fighting back with the rights we are given. The 4th and 14th amendments are ones they like to break, and you have the right to remain silent, the biggest mistake we all make is talking, like the police, they only ask because they don’t know. And we think simple conversation is harmless well they find a way to twist and turn every single word you say with the fake smiles and all.Incoming search terms: