And Jacob sent messengers before him to Esau his brother unto the land of Seir, the country of Edom.
-- Gen. 32:3 (KJV)
It's been twenty years since Jacob deceived Esau. Jacob sent messengers to Esau in order to find out whether or not Esau still wanted to kill him. Even if you have a grudge with a family member, then realize that it is never too late to reach out in order to settle the conflict.
Numerical Analysis: The numerical pattern for this verse is 5,3,8,2. (5) Stay in God's presence in order to be sent. (3) Walking in the Spirit will allow for you to eventually impact nations. (8) Choose to have a new beginning in God so that you will be able to impact countries. (2) Walk in God's kingdom so that you will be able to impact countries.