Well, well, I just had to jump into the wagon of the thousands over thousands of millions of fathers that are up to their twitter balls of their children lacking f…acebooking respect for what parents must do to provide.
By the time of this writing I am sure my tera-llions of readers are aware of the father who—because his daughter’s blasphemous and taunting post in youtube ravage him—shot his daughter’s laptop to death.
And to say the least is that, as a father, I am freaking upset with the above daughter. I understand that father wasn’t right to involved a gun in a family mattter, but what do kids think about fathers? They believe we are a bunch of retards that must provide for them no questions asked? Are we so damn loonies that our children can laugh at us unpunished?
I understand some fathers are a funny representation of a man. They mistreat their women—your mothers—and swap them for a young, fresh looking woman as soon as Mrs. Father beauties begin to fade.
But those m***r f*****s do not represent, I repeat, do not represent the real father. The real father who sticks to his responsibilities and takes care of his family till the end. The real father who won’t run away and dirt his feet into anything necessary so his family can have what they deserve. And the real fathers are, I repeat, the real fathers are the majority. They are the real thing.
And I hope I belong to the ‘real thing’ club. My high-school student son came back from school the other day and showed me the results of his semester. Bad results I must said, and when I told him he was grounded for a month he dare to argue forcefully and asked why, why, why… incessantly ? What the heck ? He is so spolied that his understanding of obvious reasons is diminished ?
Aha! Time for dad’s anti-spoil measures. What’s wrong with the modern children is the stupid modern idea that you have to ease the discipline to avoid traumatize them. And if you think otherwise and apply strict discipline to them surely you are retard, or have some incurable disorder. The ignorants say you must ‘empower you children’ but I am yet to meet an empowered kid that do his will and go in the right direction.
And I have also yet to meet a kid whose father was a disciplinary monk and guide him in the wrong direction. The truth is that supporters of modern ideas on how to rise children adopt their BS not because they believe in them but because they watch to much reality TV.
I also understand mothers are the most important half of the family, but since fathers won’t take bullshit from their children fathers are often the villain. But even if we dads are considered the villain of the family we must apply the discipline that will make our children develop better than if we let them do just as they please.
Many fathers let their children call them names, show no respect, puff at them, treat them like a joke, spend their money, and many other things. These fathers hope that nature will work its way and make the kids understand the sacrifices and nights without sleep because the bills keep coming. But things won’t happen unless you make them happen.
I read somewhere that if you want to rise a child you must start 20 years before he is born. So, for the sake of our grand children’s future we have to put an end to the non-sense BS that less discipline will do. For one, I told my son that my house is not a democracy. I told him I am the king and the master of all, and the all knowing all powerful rogue leader. He laugh his guts out, but when he saw my face and understood I meant what I said he almost cry and told me, “ sorry dad, tell me what to do so you can trust me again.”
Finally, as the Japanese saying goes, “you should be afraid of tsunamis, earthquakes, and fires; but if your father gets upset you better be…somewhere else.”